Lat night I dreamt my bf was wearing a girdle.
He always has been slightly overweight, which I don’t mind at all (I still find him attractive), but I really liked the shape the girdle gave him — it made him look much slimmer.
His figure has always been kind of feminine, but in the girdle, it looked REALLY feminine. It made his waist look small but his chest and hips look wide and shapely.
So what does this mean? Do I subconsciously wish my bf was thinner, or am I subconsciously attracted to women (because his figure looked all girly and all)?
Or does it mean something else?
Please help, I’m so confused!
The dreams seem to suggest some conflict you are having about your boyfriend. I would wonder if you enjoy being more in control of the situation with him taking the more feminine traditional type role. It does not seem so much that you want him thinner but more shapely like a female.
I don’t think it say much about your attraction to other women but it says more about how you would like to control your boyfriend and change him in directions that you would want.
You don’t give enough information to say much more.
If this is helpful let me know.
To me, it sounds like you want him to be thinner.
Have you lost weight yourself recently? If so, perhaps his attractive womanly figure in your dream is a reflection of your own figure — you have lost weight, and look attractive, and now you wish to see the same on him (although not actually womanly — that was just part of the dream. Basically, you just want to see him looking attractive).
At any rate, how do you feel about his body now, after the dream?
you um… this is kinda funny i had almost the same dream with mine but he was wearing a girdle and i was forcing him to exercise your just slightly aware of what is coming to you in the future and your mind is just basically reminding you your not lesbo calm down…
Sounds like you wish fatty was thinner.
you subconsciously want him to be thinner